⚡️⚡️Can attraction grow over time or is it instant or never?

Once I have heard from someone that attraction is like lightning...you see someone, and BOOM, you feel it. But is that always true? I don’t think so. Sometimes you meet a person and feel nothing special, just “okay.” But after some time, after talks, laughs, shared coffee, or even arguments - you suddenly realize, “Oh no… I actually like him!” Attraction can grow, slowly but surely, like a flower.

Of course, first spark is exciting, but sparks can burn out too fast. Growing attraction feels deeper - it’s not just about looks, but about soul, humor, kindness. So yes, attraction can grow. The danger is… you might wake up one day and ask yourself, “When did this boring guy become so hot to me?”