You want control, but you're afraid of submission.

Everyone wants to control, but few admit they dream of being controlled.
Power is exciting. But submission is liberating.
You think you want to dominate, but really you want someone to let you down. To say, "Trust me," and do everything you're afraid to ask.
Control is a shield behind which we hide our fear of vulnerability.
But sometimes the only way to feel strong is to surrender. Not out of weakness, but out of courage.
The paradox of power is that it only works when both know what it feels like to lose it.