Sometimes passion is not about feelings, but about control. A man thinks he is dominant, that he is playing the game. But he doesn't notice how dependent he is on the emotions a woman dispenses to him. She knows when to be cold and when to be warm. When to disappear and when to return his gaze. It's not manipulation, but the art of maintaining a balance between presence and absence. Men often call it magic, but it's simply subtle psychology. Passion isn't physical. It's how you make a man lose control while thinking he's in control.