Real foreplay begins not in the bedroom... It is thought I have heard recently from one woman in her 50s. It is not when you pet your woman, kiss her where she wants or use special touch. It is quality time you spent together all day before time for sexual activity. It is when you help each other, when you communicate all day, help in house chores, flirt and tell compliments pure because of desire to please ... in this case when it is time for intimacy your woman is all into process as you put sticks to the flame all day long...