Arranged marriage or love?!?

Hello!

We are living in the 21 century and in our understanding couple spend time together and dating, and get into marriage because of love ! But our world is big enough and still there are happening arranged marriages! If really I can not understand it. I know that statistics says that in most cases, couples who had an arranged marriage are more understanding to each other. But I could not live with person who I don’t know, who I don’t love!

I want to feel butterflies, giddiness, an unsolicited need to smile and unexplainable happiness. I am sure it is impossible to feel if you are in an arranged marriage. I believe it is a special case of family interaction that has become a frequent occurrence in marital statistics and it is really sad!

In General, I am sure people in an arranged marriage experiences deep inner suffering, because the joy of the acquired benefits rarely lasts very long. The desire to build a happy relationship and find mutual understanding can push to sympathy for the spouse, but also can destroy such a marriage with cheatings.

I wish every person would be totally honest with each other and not live with someone just because it is time for it or his family pushed him or her to have marriage or kids. Everything should go naturally. I know that every person has many chances to find a right person, yeah, it is not that easy. I know it very good…. But we need to believe to fate and just follow signs that it gives us. My sign brought me here and I hope that very soon I will be very happy in a mutual love relationship that will build with a good man, who will fall in love with me too. I am very positive lady and I hope my future Man will want to build life with me because of feelings and not of lack of love and cold calculation…

Have a nice day!
Ruslana