5 secrets for an unforgettable date
Hello dear men! I want to share with you my point about first dating. The often, we have high expectations for a first date with a person who is of interest to us. But do we always succeed in achieving our goals? To make the first meeting easy and pleasant for both parties, it is worth observing several rules.
1. Be real
Remember the ad? A girl comes on a date and accidentally hears a young man waiting for her speaks to someone on the phone: “No, I haven't found it yet. After all, I’m looking for the real one! ”The girl quickly changes her appearance, becomes “real ”and makes a wonderful impression on the young man. Who would have thought that in life everything is just that? The same man repents. Being real, a gentleman shows interest.
2. Smile sincerely
Psychologists have long explained why. The only requirement for your smile: it must be sincere. You may ask how you can generally smile at a stranger, and even sincerely. Just think that you are sincere now! You are sincerely glad that you came to the meeting, and here he is, waiting for you, and you are really happy to see him, isn’t that so?
3. Be easier
Take it easy. Experience shows that in a person who is too obsessed with the result, the chances of achieving it are sharply reduced. This is inexplicable, but it is a fact. Although, perhaps, the whole point is in excessive tension. It doesn’t decorate anyone. And our task with you is to present yourself so that a person wants to see you again. Or even more than once!
4. Do not be afraid to ask
But ask about what's really important or interesting to you. Psychologists say that people like to talk about themselves. And this is a sin not to use! Seeing your genuine interest, the interlocutor perks up and becomes calmer.
5. Believe in yourself
This rule should be an axiom for you. Self-love, adequate self-esteem and self-confidence are the main components of your future success. And not only on the first date. These qualities form your inner core of a sustainable person. And it is they that underlie your charisma and attractiveness. Feel free to set a date. The date will be successful!