The habit of getting stuck in the past.

Hi there.

One lonely night I thought once again why people stay lonely, why we can not find right person right at that moment when we are ready to build the relationship. And I think one of the reasons is our past. We have this habit - to live not NOW, and eternally to get stuck in the past, constantly to compare and compare. Especially hurts more when the past was better. Most of all, we love to grind past resentments, disappointments and phrases!! I am sure everyone remember words spoken many years ago and which will remain relevant to us forever . I am sure most women keep old fighting’s and words that were spoken, actions and in contrary men in most cases threw it all out of their archives a long time ago.

With this habit is connected another our habit. We like cherish old things. Clothes that brings to us good memories, things, souvenirs, presents. I am sure for 100% that everyone has at least few things at home that you love just because of past, because of memories that we keep with those moments or years.

Isn't that stuck in the past? We don’t realize that in this way we simply do not let something NEW into our lives. This applies to clothes presents and of course relationship. We prefer to cling to exhausted moments instead of moving on and developing new ones.

What conclusion I made for myself? I made a conclusion that we should not decline our past. Of course not! But we don’t need to hold it with both hands. Let it go and be waiting for something new in your life. Of course new is almost always brings some stress to us. Because we, people very difficult endure the changes of our lives. But we should be strong and be open to new page of life. Without old clothes, relationship and happy or sad moments that are related with it.

I am open to the new stage of my life. I am open to new emotions and new actions. And I am waiting so much when I could step into this new life with a great man near me.

Wish you all happiness and a good luck.
Julia