Do we need to hide our past?
Hi there!
It is not a secret that my main desire is to be happy in a healthy relationship and I want to find right man. I am very open woman but I notice more and more that people nowadays are very closed to each other. It is so difficult to them to share anything with other people. Probably it is the biggest mistake and also that’s why it is difficult to find YOUR person. I agree completely that past life, where you had mistakes, relationships is closed page of everyone book and people want to forget about it and never remind about past any more. But is that is right?
Most magazines write to never talk about your past with your partner. I can agree only on the half with it. I don’t regret nothing in my life and I am thankful for every page of my past because it lead me to where I am now and who I became. And I don’t want to hide nothing! I want my future man would know everything about me and about my past. There is nothing to be ashamed of and talks about ourselves past is important also. Not of course in tiny details, but main things, to understand what do you want from life now, what happened in your past so you have certain desires right now.
As for me I don’t want to hide nothing and I want to find man who will be completely open to me in the future. I am talking not to tell everything on first date or second or any near time, but I want to be sure that in future we going to be very close people and I will not find out from stranger people that my man had million wives before me or that he has special hobby or kids from previous relationship.
I am not seeking tall or short man, I am not seeking man only with blond, dark or grey hair. It is not important for me. But important if he will be honest, open with me and we will create the strongest team together and will survive any storm together without any doubts!
Elena