Just 2 rules!
Hello!
Is it scary for us to change our private life forever? YES! Of course yes. We live by rules that our parents and our culture, society put into us. Sometimes you just can not break them. All these thoughts, what your family or friends would think if you do THIS and not THAT as usual.
Everyone from us should have and follow just 2 simple rules!
First rule !
When you are in a relationship there should be very easy for both. Easy should be from the beginning of the relationship. If you have feeling like you know this person many years and in fact you just met, it is the best feeling ever! It is better than person who you try to become closer many many years and no results! I believe you should not run after YOUR person or pursues either! If you would do that just one time- you would do that million times everyday, but you will not get anything good in reply, because not YOUR person will not value this! To tell the true, I had such experience and it was here on this site, I found wonderful man, and we had this feeling like we knew each other really many years already, but suddenly he stopped answer, without any explanations. I tried to wrote in chat and I wrote letters, I really worried. But…nothing. So this rule is really important one. Your person will never allow you run after him, trying to make everything best and in reply- nothing! Of course with time there could be excuses, but it is so easy to see where is the truth and when you hear a big lie.
Second rule!
Our relationship should brings happiness and joy to both! I know there exist couples who can not stand boring stable life, they adore rattle dishes and everything else, but this, tears, fighting’s , reproaches, recriminations….It is the beginning of the end!
Life together can be different in the future. All tastes are present in it. And sweet, and bitter, and sour and salty. If people really love each other, they will not run away from the relationship as soon as the first difficulties appear in them. And strive to overcome them together. Life live together-this hard work two in relations every day. If people want to be together, they overcome all these obstacles together. And weaklings only look for reasons to escape from the relationship at the first difficulties that will inevitably be in any relationship. And then - in a vicious circle...
I hope that these rules will bring happiness to everyone. I hope they will bring happiness to me!
Veronika