4 things to do in the first month of a relationship

Pink glasses, hot kisses, gifts and pleasure. Remember all that? Then it’s better - a new depth and other values. Only there you need to properly "dive" from the first stage.

- Enjoy and take your time:
Plan a wedding in the second week of relationships, introduce parents to the third ... Where are you in a hurry? Of course, it is important to decide what is happening and "whether he is the one", but: this can take a year, or even more. The older the “candidate”, the more he “checks” you on important points for him - economic efficiency, attentiveness, interests. Practice "here and now", enjoy the process.

- Explore partner:
No matter how you fall in love, your analytical part will still collect data, answering the question "is it worth investing in these relationships?" Another thing is that you will brush it off like a annoying fly. For a sober look, it’s IMPORTANT to at least record “disturbing calls” in notes, they will come in handy. You will remember good things anyway. In the same way, you can collect a certain “dossier” for a partner - that he loves, that he likes, that he hates.

- Experiment and discuss
In every relationship, we open up in a new way. Sometimes you have to discuss the simplest things: "What did you mean (a) when you wrote this?" It may turn out that you turned everything upside down, while deciding to part with it (her). A new person in your life - new views on life. If you are an attentive listener, you will learn a lot about the world.

- Stay yourself
Hundreds of women experience depression due to loss of self-esteem. Not the best way it affects men, they lose interest in those who too live by their interests. It is important to remember not only about “our” needs, but also about personal ones (hobbies, friends, career, companies, etc.)