Starters for online conversation at Love-Temptation – what to choose?

I’ve always found it difficult to start conversation with a girl. Even in my school age when I tried to have first dates I usually failed even coming up to a girl and telling her the first word of my well-planned speech. I even tried to write down some texts and learned them before approaching the girl I liked. But as soon as I saw her beautiful eyes, I forgot everything and started murmuring something unbelievably stupid.

Probably, that’s the thing why I still don’t have wife and kids. Today I want to tell you a little story of how I made a change in my way of communicating with girls thanks to Love-Temptation dating website. Actually, I’ve never thought that I could cure this psychological disease of not understanding what to tell a girl. But now I’m quite free of that thing.

My story – how I started talking to girls

My friend, Alex, is a real monster in dating sphere. He is divorced now and has been single for 15 years. All this time he’s had thousands of girlfriends changing them nearly every month. I couldn’t even imagine how to approach one woman at work who was single and beautiful. She even made hints to me, but I couldn’t do anything to ask her out. Then I asked Alex to help me and showed him a picture of that woman. He laughed at me and showed Love-Temptation website.

Alex said that last 2 years he had been using this platform to get acquainted with girls from Russia and Ukraine. Online dating became his cure for loneliness. For now he has a really wonderful girlfriend, Olga, and they are going to get married. For me even registering on the website was a real struggle. I was shy to show my photos, tell about my age, to answer to girls who wrote to me.

But after some time I decided to give myself a chance and start talking to every girl who I liked on the website. It appeared that my age and appearance are quite OK, my starters for online conversation are absolutely great and women like them. That was the point where I understood that I had been such an idiot my whole life. Now I start a new life full of joy and communication.

What kind of starters can you use?

It’s absolutely absurd question when my friend ask me what kind of starters I choose for a special girl. It’s not important at all, what you’ll write to her. Many of my colleagues who also use Love-Temptation now, try to invent some jokes, compliments and other things. You need to understand that every girl is 100% unique and your wonderful starter will work with one girl but won’t work with other one. It’s very important to start conversation with your own heart.

Though, I made a list of popular mistakes in starting a conversation online:
1. Never use great compliments in your first message. Girls would think you’re kind of a maniac and won’t even answer you.
2. Never try to give gifts to a girl who didn’t even have time to answer to you. Slavic women are very negative for gifts from unknown men.
3. Forget about dirty phrases and hints. The only thing you can get for it is ban from that girl and black list at the website.
4. Don’t start your conversation with talking about yourself. Girls want to tell you more than to listen from you, so feel comfortable in a chat.
5. Don’t start a chat for a second time if you were rejected by a girl. Here you have plenty more women to talk to.

Feel comfortable and don’t think about every word. Just try to be yourself and you’ll see that it’s the best piece of advice you can get. Don’t even try to use some well thought-out phrase which you send to every girl on the website.

So, is it hard to talk to women online?

For me it appeared to be the only variant I can imagine. I’ve already met two girls in Ukraine when I went there for business. But now I start communicating to one of them more often and start seeing her as my real girlfriend. Now I don’t need to think about starters, we just talk every day and try to send each other messages during a day. So, starting a conversation is really important, but what’s more important is your future strategy. The only important piece of advice which I can give to you is being yourself all the time!
Gary