Virginity or sex?

I am very interested in one question. How men regard to women, who keep their virginity before marriage? Can a man endure and wait for lady of his heart? I thin, that men take this matter very seriously. Physical bond is really important for them. In this way, men look for their soul mate. But women are built differently. For them emotional bond is on the first place, and they can abstain. But which point of view is right? Is a sex quite important in building of relationship? What do you think about this?
In my opinion, first sex is really important for every woman. She prepares for this and plans everything carefully, because she dreams about perfect first time, but often it happens so strange and even obscure. And of course, woman think, that it was a wrong person and she regret about this. But first time is really so. And if even a woman will wait for perfect prince, who will do all perfect. It`s not true. It will never happen.
But also, in virginity before marriage there is an advantage. A man can be sure in his wife, his sweetheart. They can enjoy each other and become acquainted.
There are advantage and defects in this theme, but it`s a choice of everyone.
What do YOU think about it all?