MARRY FIRST AND LOVE WILL ???
My dearest readers ! Thanks a lot that you decided to visit this page and read everything that I am going to write you about….But the question that I am going to discuss is very important. The thing is – in Ukraine we have such proverb MARRY FIRST AND LOVE WILL FOLLOW …. Very often I can hear this proverb from the old people who are over 50 years old and they tell this about the people, who got married, and they have problems in relationships . They have these problems because they didn’t know each other very well before marriage or maybe one of the partners started to be addicted to bad habit…..different problems can be… because family life is really not easy thing…
From my life experience, I know many ladies who wanted to find their second halves abroad. Of course foreigners also want to find a sweet bride , who can be their second half FOREVER !!! And very often the relationships in communication leads for future marriage… but after the first communication a man offers a hand and a heart and he is ready to get married to his possible future half. But it seems to me the relationships should be in such way…. For strong relationships the man should come to the lady first, and they spend some time together – walking, chatting, visiting some places of interest, first real kisses… maybe something moooooorrrreeee ….LOL …. So people are getting used to each other in person… they are getting used to their touches, their aroma… their thoughts and eyesight….
Then the texting communication is going on and the man is inviting the lady to his country for a longer period of time because usually men want their second half live with them in their country…the place for accommodation for the lady the lovable couple should think together…. And only then when people have already seen each other in their countries, seen each other’s ways of life … only then they can start talking about getting marriage officially .
So I think that lovable couple should be very sure in their feelings !!!! Should feel that this is a real LOVE !!! And not just the love !!! but a kind of love that CONQUERS ALL !!! and distance is not a problem for such feelings !!! Only through love we need to go to marriage but not vice versa …..
Of course I am a woman and I have my personal point of view of a female….
Do you agree with my thoughts , my sweet reader ? if you think so – that is just I have found a confederate… or maybe you have your own plan to develop the relationships with your second half…. ???
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Anna