6 signs that this is not your person.

You met an outwardly pleasant and quite attractive representative of the opposite sex. Friends and acquaintances say that you look good together and are happy for you. And it seems that you yourself think so, and we are moving towards rapprochement. But in the end, nothing good comes out of dating. Constantly somewhere something does not fit, it feels like the clockwork is broken and the gears are slipping, where there should be a clear clutch. Sometimes we begin to realize this when the relationship has gone far and getting out of it is not so easy. It’s scary to offend a partner just like that, and after a certain period it’s difficult to take it and say: Sorry, we don’t fit ... ”Especially if someone has already moved in with someone, or rented a joint apartment.


Of course, such relationships can be avoided. If you take your time and take a closer look - is this your person.

First, and very important, do you speak the same language? Do you put the same meaning in words? If not, how different is the associative series? It is bad if a person does not understand what you are talking about, although he sincerely tries to keep the conversation going. Where it is necessary to laugh, he condemns or is horrified, and where it is necessary to weigh and consider in your opinion from different angles, he passes his disappointing verdict. You should be alerted if in everything that seems funny or funny to you, he sees the negative and takes it too seriously. Or, on the contrary, where it is worth taking seriously - he says all sorts of nonsense.

Does your sense of humor match? It is difficult to build relationships if the companion does not understand and reacts to jokes differently than we expect. Okay, if he laughs out of a sense of politeness or pretends to be funny to him. It is much worse when each time you have to make excuses and explain what its meaning is.

Looking at him, you want to change his clothes, change the image, style, hairstyle. Or some things in appearance are very annoying.

You don't like the smell of this person. It seems like a smell like a smell, but you don’t want to bury your nose in it and inhale greedily. Now, if you pick up another toilet water ... Stop! We are not talking about toilet water, but about the individual aroma of each living organism. And we must love it! No spirits can save it.

If you are uncomfortable or embarrassed to do some simple everyday things with him: eat, drink, paint, be yourself in the end. When you put on a mask at a meeting and try to look “appropriate”.

And finally, you can safely do without him for a long time and not even remember until he calls and writes.


If any of these signs are present in your relationship, then you should think carefully about whether this is your person.