When a man wants power—but is afraid of a strong response"

Every man wants to be a leader. Not for the sake of dominance—for the feeling of influence. To be heard, to feel like his word means something.
But as soon as he meets a woman who can reciprocate, a struggle begins within him: he's drawn to her, yet simultaneously frightened.
A man wants to be stronger, but he doesn't want to appear weaker in front of her.
He wants to lead, but he's afraid of losing control.
He wants passion, but he's afraid she'll be able to read his mind.
And what scares him even more is that she might not be thrilled with him. She might not choose him. And then it's all over—the ego has failed.
The biggest illusion men have is that power makes them desirable. In reality, it's the ability to withstand a strong woman that makes them desirable.
Could you withstand a woman who isn't afraid to be honest in return?