Why do men come here at all?

I signed up for a dating site with the classic set of hopes: romance, cozy evenings, deep conversations, and—looking ahead—that kind of family happiness romantic comedies whisper about.

I think every woman here came with those exact thoughts!

Am I right?

I’m really curious: what are these men signed up here for?

If they aren't meeting anyone or chatting...

And—funny enough—they don't even "like" photos... :(

Helloooo!!! Men!!! Are you there? Then why are you staying silent???

I put my heart into setting up my profile and used natural-looking photos, but the result was simply zero!

Quite a bit of time has passed—surely there must be *some* progress by now?

How about you?

Let me know in the comments—I’m really curious; maybe you’ve had better luck?

I felt less like a woman looking for love and more like an anthropologist studying a branch of the nature reserve for unfulfilled male fantasies.

I can guarantee that many women sitting in front of their screens, looking at their list of ideal dates, are thinking: "My dear men, why do you even come here? It feels like, for you, a dating site is just a storage locker for your fears or a free 'Rent-a-Wife' app that includes a 'convenient maid-on-demand' feature."

They come seeking comfort without commitment, free therapy, a boost for their bruised egos, or simply a change of pace for their evenings spent eating pizza and binge-watching TV series. But the moment you so much as mention responsibility, shared plans, or even basic care, they vanish faster than the morning mist.

If you agree with me, then at least don't stay silent—tell me, how are things going for you here?

Gentlemen, if all you’re looking for is a way to "vent" or a free domestic service, why don't you just say so honestly in your profiles instead of pretending to be Prince Charming?

Why does the word "family" strike such panic into most users, as if they were being sentenced to a lifetime of hard labor on the galleys?

Where is the line between healthy personal space and a simple unwillingness to take responsibility for anyone other than your own cat?

...or do you not even have a cat?