How relationship should looks like??

Hello everyone!
I would like to tell some my thoughts about love, marriage and wise relationship. I know everyone knows everything about these things, but I want to add my thoughts.

I know most people don’t trust to marriage any more and they have reasons for it. I should say that one American couple inspired me from my childhood. Yes yes! From age when I was a little girl. Michael Douglas and Catherine Zeta Jones are my ideal of how should looks like real Love and Real Marriage.

I am sure every person is doubt about relationship with big age difference or if it possible to have strong relationship if one is sick. But this couple showed to all world that everything is possible. She turned 50 and he turned 75 years old last month. Yeah, they have 25 years difference between them but they don’t notice it. I read a lot of their interviews and I loved how they explained everything. a quarter of a century separating them is rather an advantage. They are at different life stages and w teach each other something new. I think Michael is right saying that if you are happy in marriage, big age difference you don’t notice after short time together. It inspired me, because I am sure that if my future man will be much older than me,it will not be a problem.

The second problem that everyone is afraid is sicknesses. People afraid that if someone from them will get a sickness, his or her partner would leave them alone. 9 years ago the actor was diagnosed with a disappointing cancer of the larynx — and everyone talked not so much about the possible death of Douglas, but about the fact that Zeta-Jones will not take on the duties of a nurse. The gossips were wrong! She cared about him really good and as the disease receded. And after some time of that she ended up in a psychiatric clinic with some mental sickness and he did not leave her! They had really difficult times and also they have kids, who needed attention too. Their marriage is not ideal, they have fighting’s, sicknesses and other problems, but they solve it together!

I totally agree with Catherine words, that today, people take marriage lightly.in every family there are UPS and downs in the relationship between partners ,but this is not a reason to divorce after every quarrel. You have to fight for your family!

And I wish that one day I will have the same relationship in the future. Relationship that will be strong to bear all adversity together, all happiness, age difference and everything else- but together!
Kristina