Rule of the three dates.
Hello!
I think we are all modern people and everyone heard about an unspoken " rule of 3 dates”, according to which on third date people have intimacy, if it comes to that. The principle is: if you both haven't like each other, then by the third date it will be found out. If there is mutual sympathy, then it is decent to have intimacy by that time…I know that every woman has her own amount of dates ,someone need 5, someone need 10. If the guy does not agree, he can stop courting. I think that is fair enough.
it doesn't matter how much time you spend together before you go to bed. What matters much more is how you spend it! A girl who sleeps with a man on the first date after an evening that is spent talking, full of personal and mutual revelations, has a much better chance for a serious relationship than one who, after three dates, has not established an emotional contact with a guy.
I know that this is much easier for men than for women. They are ready for something closer just if woman is beautiful and even more if she is wearing something sexy. But women need emotional connection. If intimacy happens before emotional interpenetration, relationship will not continue, and it will not be possible to reboot this relationship either…
Of course romantic movies shows us that people who just met can jump into bed right away) But in real life woman wants to know Man better. Woman likes to watch and see every detail .What man tells, how he tells it. If he is interested in a woman? If he asks any questions about her and her life? If he invites her to spend more time together in a future?
I'm not saying that a man must confess his love for woman. No. it's about the fact that before you go to bed together, you have to feel that you can communicate with each other, throwing off the mask, can be yourself when you are together, can afford to be honest like with no one else.
When your heart jumps out of your body and your hands shake when you see Him it is a very good sign. And I hope that much more men will understand it soon. I hope that men will not be waiting anything bigger if you are not close emotionally and it shouldn't be always 3 dates);-)
Forget about rule of 3 dates and just enjoy communication with your Person;-)
Veronika