50% of people said THIS at least once.
Hello there.
If to ask any person, what is the most worse mistake in relationship and communication except cheating, 99% of all people would answer- lie! Yes, I hate lie too. Not small not big , I can not stand when people lie . So I want to talk today, what lie we girls see perfectly here, when you guys tell us something.
I think first lie phrase is- “I am not near computer, even if online, I just forget to sing off.” I don’t say it can not be true, of course we are humans and we can go somewhere and computer is on. It happened not once to me too! BUT! When you hear only this phrase, many times why your beloved did not answer to you….it could be lie. Better tell the truth than to lie! Why not to tell truth and explain that I have some close people with whom I communicate long time already except you and it is not influence on our communication, our relationship? Girls are understanding and we feel people very good, and lie just can kill future relationship!
Second place probably phrase – “ I love you”. People forget what real meaning of this phrase. And we should not tell it right after 1 minute of talk. How you can love person if you don’t know him? It is feeling that come into heart with time. It happen if you communicate in chat long hours or write letters all the time and you get this feeling, that I know this person, I can not live even a day without hear some words from him. But not after few minutes of talking!
Third place I will give to phrase- “ I want to get married and we are going to have fantastic future with you”. …It is really beautiful words and they are sweet so much…if they are true. If you don’t see this girl in your life, if you are not going even meet her…why people say these words? For what this lie? If you are just killing your free time with certain girl, not consider her even your future girlfriend, don’t promise to her, don’t draw to her such beautiful plans of future life together. Be Honest! Because when you said so many beautiful words and girl is dreaming about this future, about you and you just disappear one day, not explaining nothing, this lie break our hearts.
Please, guys, be honest always. Don’t tell things that you are not going to do. If you understood that she is NOT the one- explain to her, say good bye! Don’t lie. Lie killing all the best in our life.
Take care and be honest.
Veronika