Three ways to hook a man. How to become special in his eyes.
It happens that you are interested in a man, but you do not know how to stand out from his environment? Attract attention?
There are three "magic" ways. And they work as follows.
All of us, no matter how old we are, no matter what we do, and no matter what kind of upbringing we have received, we want to feel special. It is one of the greatest and most unmet human needs. And of course we always pay attention to the one who appreciated us. Once appreciated, it means that he knows a lot about it, feels thinner than others, smarter than others, also special, and so on. And it instantly works on the subconscious.
“Oh, everyone ... I know all this!” - many will say - "Now we will talk about compliments and praises."
Yes, about them. But do not rush to jump to conclusions. Compliment compliment - strife. Many people know everything, but they just don’t know how to use it correctly. Especially when it comes to getting the attention of a man.
Making compliments to the representatives of the stronger sex is actually quite difficult. This is due to the fact that men are always distrustful of them. Maybe due to more developed critical thinking, maybe “hardness” or they subconsciously feel that if a woman praises, then she needs something.
It is we women who are greedy for compliments, they told us what a beauty we are today and we shone, chirped ... And the man still needs to prove that he deserves this compliment. Therefore, the right approach and skill in this serious matter is required.
First, the most important rule is that compliments must be made absolutely sincerely. Insincerity is repulsive and always felt.
And secondly, in no case should you say banal and stereotyped things. If a man or a guy is muscular, then it makes no sense for him to say: “You are so pumped up.” Yes, pumped up, but he knows it even without you, everyone has long appreciated this moment. Which means you don't stand out in any way. And a fad has already appeared in my head - that you want something, he wants it ...
Talk about his personal qualities. And in this case, complimentary questions about how a person achieved this, how he could, what inner talents or qualities he used in himself work well. Questions like these reveal what you see deeper than others. And then a person has a feeling of kinship: “She understands me better than others - we are on the same wavelength!” And the main advantage of this method is that if you have found, noticed these qualities, then you really understand him, and it will be sincere!
The next way is to give deep meaning to what he does. Here, too, you need to delve into yourself and in a person. What did he help you understand or what actions prompted you. What new things did you bring into your life? Let's say you saw his work and said: "Now I will look at these things in a completely different way ... I understand ... (then think up yourself)". Give more importance to his actions, deeds and creativity! And thoughts will appear in his head: “I didn’t even imagine that I was so unique!” You help him open up, inspire him for new achievements, and this is also catching.
And finally, the third way is to talk about the reaction of your body. “I am breathtaking from such a relief”, “your works are piercing, even goosebumps ...” When you talk about your body, about your feelings, few men will remain indifferent. After all, you bring physical evidence of its uniqueness.
Use these methods and be happy!