Sleep together in the same bed or separately?
The bedroom with a large bed is presented as a center of life in a couple, where children or talk about work are not allowed, where important confessions are made and tears are shed, where they have sex and, of course, relax.
So why should you sleep separately? The first reason is snoring. Indeed, when a beloved husband or wife displays serenades of snoring almost all night, it's almost impossible to get enough sleep. Therefore, it is snoring that is considered the main reason that spouses sleep in different bedrooms.
The second argument to separate sleep is how we look when we wake up. Proponents of everything natural and natural will immediately say that if a person loves his soul mate, then he must love her unkempt, unshaven, unwashed and with uncleaned teeth.
Naturalness and naturalness is, of course, good. But in fact, only in romantic films are the heroines in the morning as beautiful and beautiful as in the evening, before going to bed. So is it not better to wake up in your bedroom, put yourself in order, and only then go to the precious spouse or spouse?
And finally, the third argument in favor of separate sleep is: the end to all debate. This applies to such moments when the couple cannot agree on a closed or open window, what kind of blankets to hide or to let in or not to let into the bedroom while the cat is sleeping. Yes, yes, it happens.
And about sleeping together! There are important arguments here that we will consider.
First of all, one should listen to family psychologists who say that falling asleep in different rooms or in different beds, the couple are separated in real life. In addition, many husbands and wives spend almost all day at work. And they only get an opportunity to see each other in the evening. And if you add sleep in different beds here, then the cracks in the relationship, and maybe even the family break, will not wait long.
Also, scientists believe that hugs and physical contact are useful - they contribute to rapprochement due to the production of the “hormone of love” oxytocin.
Therefore, falling asleep in one bed, you seem to create that invisible emotional connection, which in the afternoon will have a beneficial effect on your relationship. In addition, many women are simply afraid to sleep alone. And her husband’s embrace before bedtime is the very opportunity to feel protected, necessary and most beloved.
Well, my beloved, what do you choose to sleep together or separately?