Talking to men about your "experiences".

Ladies I am curious as to what you may be thinking when you write men and talk about your past "experiences". I cannot speak for any other but myself on this topic but I'm sure some men will agree. I came to this site to look for a potential long term relationship. I'm flattered by the many letters I get. For the most part ladies introduce themselves politely and tell a little about themselves. What I found shocking and a bit curious is a lot of ladies tell me about past interactions of a very private matter with other men or women. Speaking for myself I can say without hesitation this is the last thing I want to read from a woman. I'm not one who considers any type of interactions with such a lady. I really do not want to know the details of any past private interactions you may have had. It is not conducive to any manner of furthering any communication from me. It leads me to wonder why a lady looking for a possible future relationship would think a man wants to know in detail about other men and or women you had in your past.